My partner died just over 8 years ago, and I am still suffering intense grief. During the months following his death I felt him very close, and experienced a number of what I considered were after death communications. All this continued until one night I had lucid dream when he told me that he was "moving on with a friend". The dream was so vivid I can still see him, and in the distant background I could see a house and a woman (who I did not recognise), with blonde hair. I begged him not to go, but he just gently smiled at me before the dream ended. After that dream, the signs I received from my partner were no more.
since then, I have frequent unhappy dreams where when I am with my deceased partner he intimated that he is in a new relationship, and I feel that he does not want me any more. When I wake up I feel very upset, and this lingers for most of the day. Last night however, I experienced the most disturbing dream. In it, I visited my partner who I discovered was living in a palatial home. At first he mentions that he had befriended a woman, but when I visited him, it was revealed that she was living there with him. His entire personality had changed in the dream, as I found him to be conceited and unfriendly. I beefed him to not abandon me and to remember what we once had, and all the years we had spent together, but he cruelly ignored my pleas. I also saw the woman he was with, and she seemed to gloat at my pain. I woke up feeling heartbroken.
Please can someone give some explanation for these dreams. Do I visit the spirit world then, and are these messages really from my deceased partner informing me that he is in a new relationship? I am fearing any further traumatic dreams like this, as they are adding hurt and confusion to the grief I am suffering, and the already painful loss of my partner. Thank you so much if you can provide advice.
Thank you again Ronald for your lovely message. I have been diagnosed by bereavement counsellors as suffering from "complicated grief". If you are familiar with the condition you will know that it means recovery extends beyond the normal timeframe. It also includes avoiding places once visited with your deceased loved one, as well as music etc. The worst of ithat I experience constant anxiety due to permanent separation from Peter, and waking up every morning with panic attacks due to the thought of another day without him. This is just a brief outline of complicated grief. Thank you for offering to pray for me Ronald, and I hope your prayers will be heard.
Thank you so much Ronald for your kind and reassuring comments. I will try to believe that that it is not truly Peter appearing in these traumatic dreams. As you mentioned it is very uncharacteristic of Peter, and he would not be as cruel as that. You sound a very sensitive and spiritual person Ronald, and I hope you can st a prayer that I can find some consolation to help with my intense grief, as I feel I will never recover from Peter's death. Thank you again.
Firstly, I offer my tenderest sympathy for your loss and resultant difficulties. I sincerely believe that what you see is not a true depiction of your partner and the experiences you were shown. It is well known that the great deceiver can use anything at his disposal to upset people for his own enjoyment. Logically speaking, why would your loving partner even contemplate doing this to upset you? He wouldn't. I sincerely hope you find peace in your life, knowing that he is in God's Loving, gentle and capable hands.
Apology for several typos in my post. Corrected words are 1. '''a lucid..2. ... he intimates... 3....he mentioned...4. ... I begged...